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Homophobia Is Killing Our Youth

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Dissolving hatred in our society starts with each of us on an individual level. Whether we are straight, LGBT, black, white or all shades in between, if we want to heal hate among youth we must engage in a process of introspective exploration to reveal where we ourselves have held onto hatred, ignorance, fear, and anger. Amidst all this homophobic murder, and without dismissing accountability; even those of us who feel justified in our animosity towards those who hate, must forgive our judgments. Hate in any form is still hate and it contributes to its survival. In the story of the crucifixion (whether myth or fact) Jesus says himself, "Father forgive them, they know not what they do."

I believe a direct result of my own marginalization has been the choice I have made to look inward and heal patterns of my own judgment and fear of those who choose to hate. My experience as a gay man in this society has generated in me a depth of compassion and empathy. This facilitates my understanding that people who choose to hate in the name of "their" God are simply immersed in a human experience that is built on irrationality, fear, hatred and ego; but for them, truthful, nonetheless. I choose to remember that those who choose to attack are attacking an illusion they have crafted in their own minds. Even those who have died in the name of self-love and expression have not truly died, because love that has known itself as long as man has existed cannot be destroyed. I cannot say when, but I have faith that one day those who attack in the name of "their" god will discover that they are also attacking themselves.

When we heal the hatred and anger that lies in our own hearts and come to stand steadfast in our loving we become a beacon of light for the youth of our world. Youth who deserve to live long lives fully embraced, nurtured, and loved in the truth of who they are, regardless of seeming differences among sexual orientation, race, or gender.

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{"commentId":6557226,"authorDomain":"ladyblue999"}
The Greek philosopher Aristotle, and social psychology pioneer Albert Bandura have both shown that aggression and hatred are learned behaviors. If a child is taught to hate and fear diversity, then the next place he or she expresses that hate is at school. Ten percent of all hate crimes occur at schools and colleges. If hate is learned, then it lies on the shoulders of our schools, church officials, parents, teachers, and communities to teach our young kids acceptance before they continue hurting each other, and before they become adults who will likely pass their hatred to the next generation.
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  • 7 votes
Reply#1 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 9:12 AM EDT
{"commentId":6558097,"authorDomain":"keithDSM"}

Biblical speaking, I think this can be referred to as "Sins of our fathers."

Biological or generational fathers, that is.

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  • 1 vote
#1.1 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:23 AM EDT
{"commentId":6558689,"authorDomain":"cavicore"}
Homophobia Is Killing Our Youth

So is the lack of morals and discipline.

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  • 11 votes
#1.2 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 11:12 AM EDT
{"commentId":6558805,"authorDomain":"blueboy"}
So is the lack of morals and discipline.

I'd agree if your Morals didn't stem from the Bible and included Homosexuals as "immoral", but you didn't specify so I look on the brighter side of things and just assume your not being a finger pointing, Bible thumping nut.

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  • 12 votes
#1.3 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 11:22 AM EDT
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I'd agree if your Morals didn't stem from the Bible and included Homosexuals as "immoral", but you didn't specify so I look on the brighter side of things and just assume your not being a finger pointing, Bible thumping nut.

...using the Lord's name in vain that way to ignorantly and erroneously target gays/lesbians for judgement and hatred doesn't deserve the label "morals" regardless of one's personal belief.

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  • 7 votes
#1.4 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 12:40 PM EDT
{"commentId":6559967,"authorDomain":"blueboy"}
...using the Lord's name in vain that way to ignorantly and erroneously target gays/lesbians for judgement and hatred doesn't deserve the label "morals" regardless of one's personal belief.

I agree,

People hide their homophobia behind Religion.

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  • 10 votes
#1.5 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 12:46 PM EDT
{"commentId":6560327,"authorDomain":"ladyblue999"}

People hide hatred of ANYONE different from them behind so-called religious convictions.

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  • 8 votes
#1.6 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 1:12 PM EDT
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Aristotle also suggested that being angry at the right person, at the right time and to the right degree implies being skilled. Anger must be controlled but not supressed. However, I agree in that being different too often introduces hatred from others who simply do not understand.

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  • 4 votes
#1.7 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 1:51 PM EDT
{"commentId":6562538,"authorDomain":"gundy-75"}
People hide their homophobia behind Religion.

Can you blame them? If someone doesn't believe homosexuality is the exact same thing as heterosexuality (in a societal sense not in a biological sense), they get lampooned for being ignorant bigots. It isn't wrong to hate homosexuality, it is wrong to hate the people who practice it. It is also wrong to hate those "bible thumping nuts" but it is ok to hate their practices.

I will say, right here and now, homosexuality is NOT a natural thing. I don't need any religion to tell me so either; just biology. If it is in fact genectic, it should be considered a disorder. Homosexuality amongst any animal is unnatural as sexual intercourse was only meant for reproduction, nothing more. If it is psychological, maybe a chemical imbalance in the brain, start working on a cure. :D

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  • 6 votes
#1.8 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 4:14 PM EDT
{"commentId":6563308,"authorDomain":"zomzom"}
Can you blame them? If someone doesn't believe homosexuality is the exact same thing as heterosexuality (in a societal sense not in a biological sense), they get lampooned for being ignorant bigots

Well... there's a pretty good reason that that happens: because they are ignorant bigots.

I will say, right here and now, homosexuality is NOT a natural thing.

You're wrong about that. Dolphins, bonobos, rats, cats, dogs... many higher mammals practice homosexuality and, even if it weren't natural (which it is), would that mean that driving cars is wrong, too? Human being are animals. How can they possibly do anything that isn't natural?

Homosexuality amongst any animal is unnatural as sexual intercourse was only meant for reproduction, nothing more

Wrong. For one thing, it produces pleasure and emotional bonds. Do you deny that? Do you deny that sex is pleasurable? Do you deny that it promotes emotional bonds? No? Ok, then stop pretending that all that it does is make babies. It very rarely makes babies, considering how frequently we all practice it.

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  • 5 votes
#1.9 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 5:23 PM EDT
{"commentId":6563850,"authorDomain":"gundy-75"}

Your arguments are thin Zom...

Dolphins, bonobos, rats, cats, dogs... many higher mammals practice homosexuality and, even if it weren't natural (which it is), would that mean that driving cars is wrong, too? Human being are animals.

Proof that they actually practice homosexuality and are not practicing dominance?

Driving cars is a horrible analogy. You would have to go with something that wasn't technologically advanced...Let's stick with biology ok?

How can they possibly do anything that isn't natural?

By your logic, enslavement was a natural process of the human race. i.e. humans=animals=cannot do anything that is unnatural. Correct me if I am wrong...

For one thing, it produces pleasure and emotional bonds. Do you deny that? Do you deny that sex is pleasurable? Do you deny that it promotes emotional bonds? No? Ok, then stop pretending that all that it does is make babies. It very rarely makes babies, considering how frequently we all practice it.

Hehehe...I was awiting this one. Does it produce emotional bonds and pleasure amongst all animals? No. It was never meant to. We, as humans, have put that emotional bond in place. Pleasure is another thing...but it could easily be remedied by saying that some find self mutilation "pleasureable" but it is definitely not natural. I use natural in the form of:

c. Biology Not produced or changed artificially; not conditioned

A shame...all of your arguments are conditioned...

It very rarely makes babies, considering how frequently we all practice it.

I won't even touch this one...too many factors.

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  • 2 votes
#1.10 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 6:19 PM EDT
{"commentId":6563903,"authorDomain":"zomzom"}
Driving cars is a horrible analogy. You would have to go with something that wasn't technologically advanced...Let's stick with biology ok?

Your argument is that driving cars is natural, and homosexuality isn't, then? Driving cars is biological... do you use your magic powers to push the gas pedal?

By your logic, enslavement was a natural process of the human race. i.e. humans=animals=cannot do anything that is unnatural. Correct me if I am wrong...

Nope, you're right. It's wrong, but not because it's unnatural.

We, as humans, have put that emotional bond in place.

If you're under the impression that human beings are the only higher mammals that perform sexual acts to build social bonds, that is because you've probably never heard of the discovery channel, nor owned any pets.

A shame...all of your arguments are conditioned...

Are you claiming that homosexuallity is created by space aliens who interfere with biology?

Or are you just really stupid?

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  • 4 votes
#1.11 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 6:25 PM EDT
{"commentId":6564145,"authorDomain":"gundy-75"}

You are insulting ZomZom but I knew someone on this board would be...

Let us start from the top then.

What causes homosexuality: 3 main theories are being discussed

1. Genetics/biology

2. Chemical Imbalance (in the brain or otherwise)

3. It is a choice

Now I have gone with the biological one as that is the most common theory within the gay community. And when I based my arguments off of them I try and make them relevant...

Your argument is that driving cars is natural, and homosexuality isn't, then? Driving cars is biological... do you use your magic powers to push the gas pedal?

Driving is a practice that takes teaching. Are you suggesting homosexuality is a practice as well? (Two can play at this game)

Nope, you're right. It's wrong, but not because it's unnatural.

Please elaborate. You said humans=animals and you then suggested that animals can do something that is not natural. I gave you my definition of natural because, once again, we do want to make this argument biological, do we not?

If you're under the impression that human beings are the only higher mammals that perform sexual acts to build social bonds, that is because you've probably never heard of the discovery channel, nor owned any pets.

Ahh...I never said this but you are correct. SOME animals perform sexual acts in order to form social bonds. there are also animals who mate with the first animal of the opposite sex that they see. There are also animals that mate and leave, never to be seen again.

The point being is that there are humans/animals that do not mate for social bonds (strictly pleasure) and there are those that mate for strictly pleasure (not social bonds) and then there are those that do both. Thus it is conditional and not natural. The basic method of "sex" was created to reproduce. I assume this was not something that was taught, learned, or otherwise because animals would have died out a long long time ago if they had to "practice" sex in order to get it right. Most animals are hardwired and know how to "do it". The mother bird does not bring out a diagram and slideshow. OK?

Are you claiming that homosexuallity is created by space aliens who interfere with biology?
Or are you just really stupid?

I would like to think neither.

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  • 1 vote
#1.12 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 6:49 PM EDT
{"commentId":6564449,"authorDomain":"gundy-75"}

Darwin came to the conclusion that homosexual behavior also wasn't natural.

He didn't say it was "wrong" or "immoral" as those things are subjective.

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  • 1 vote
#1.13 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 7:23 PM EDT
{"commentId":6564494,"authorDomain":"eriqalan"}

Zom Zom - apparently, the latter is correct

Gundy - "It isn't wrong to hate homosexuality" - yes it is, it is wrong because it is completely senseless. It is wrong to hate red hair, it is wrontg to hate blue eyes, it is wrong to hate ant inherited trait. - and dam* stupid

"Does it produce emotional bonds and pleasure amongst all animals?" Yes, consider Wolves (who mate for life) - that is real bonding. Consider all the animals who masturbate in some fashion - they are getting pleasure.

Frankly I pity anyone so sterile so peurile that they think sex is all about reproduction - you must have missed the class on how to be a human

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  • 2 votes
#1.14 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 7:30 PM EDT
{"commentId":6564976,"authorDomain":"gundy-75"}

*sigh*

it is wrong to hate ant inherited trait

This makes no sense since homosexuality isn't a trait or inherited...

"Hate" could be construed as "Disdain" or "Dislike". i.e. I hold disdain for afros. I hate afros.

Does it produce emotional bonds and pleasure amongst all animals?" Yes, consider Wolves (who mate for life) - that is real bonding. Consider all the animals who masturbate in some fashion - they are getting pleasure.

No. You give a conditioned example to express your point. I could give one to counter and we would go back and forth all day.

Frankly I pity anyone so sterile so peurile that they think sex is all about reproduction - you must have missed the class on how to be a human

This isn't about anyone in particular but some people enjoy sexual acts more than others. Some enjoy it immensely some do not. What is your point? Those who enjoy sex more are...what? Did you read my counter argument about mutilation? Some people enjoy it (even sexually) some don't.

If you want to make this a moral war go ahead. But just know that "pleasure" is not a moral argument neither is somehting that is expedient.

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  • 2 votes
#1.15 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 8:24 PM EDT
{"commentId":6565474,"authorDomain":"jade-log"}

I just watched Brokeback Mountain. It crushed me.  They were both such likable guys. Some guys I know are gay but I don't know if they even have sex. I do know they have a tight relationship and all the problem married folks do. Love is natural but what you love is idiosyncratic.

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  • 3 votes
#1.16 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 9:25 PM EDT
{"commentId":6565602,"authorDomain":"eric24"}
Homophobia Is Killing Our Youth

Little dramatic don't ya think? Didn't kill my youth its not gonna kill my son's youth.

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  • 4 votes
#1.17 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 9:43 PM EDT
{"commentId":6565991,"authorDomain":"thirdfeast"}

I wonder which kills more, homophobia or aids. By the way, I don't think we should hate or attack anyone, but we can certainly disagree with their actions and choices.

I would like someone to tell me how it is healthy and natural to take your private part and put it in the place that was designed to excrete food waste. Nobody seems to want to discuss this when we talk about natural interactions. I know a gay guy that has had to have several surgeries because of this. So, come on, tell me how this is natural.

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  • 4 votes
#1.18 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:32 PM EDT
{"commentId":6566048,"authorDomain":"notsanta"}

Watch this video, should shed some light, I think you will like it,


What's Morally Wrong with Homosexuality Woman some times need to be stitched up after giving birth, large object through a fixed opening. Your friend over did it, heterosexual also engage in anal and oral sex.

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  • 3 votes
#1.19 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:39 PM EDT
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  • 4 votes
#1.21 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:46 PM EDT
{"commentId":6566281,"authorDomain":"thirdfeast"}

I was looking for a real response. Not to watch a video. Many shades of delusion. Men have penises, women have vaginas. They were made for each other. Do what you want, but don't try to force acceptance as normal and natural on innocent children. I will not teach my children hate, I will just explain how some people are confused and they can't help it. And yes, sometimes a woman needs stitched after birth. Not after having a penis inserted in her vagina. Nor does she get aids from birthing. And just because some women also have anal sex, does not make that a natural act either. You are debating from a deluded view. I have nothing against gays personally. I just don't think it is right to expect the general public to agree with your acts as being natural.

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  • 3 votes
#1.22 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 11:10 PM EDT
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{"commentId":6567603,"authorDomain":"eriqalan"}

third - had you watched the video he gave you a good response if the parts did not fit how could anyone do it?

Your arguments are silly, childish; and the video addressed them with humor.

Homosexual;ity IS normal and natural - do not force your sick anti-natural perverse ideas that it is unnatural on children. No homosexuals are not confused; people who think it is unnatural ignoring the thousands of other species that also have homosexuals are confused.

Yes some women can need to be stitched up after heterosexual sex; it does happen.

Yes you can get aids from heterosexual sex

Yes, anal sex is a natural act and is also performed by thousands of other species

You are the one with the problem, you are afraid of heterosexual sex as much as homosexual sex. You are the one denying god, denying his actions and through them his real word. You need to quit listening to the horribly misinterpreted word of man and start listening to the acts of god - who created homosexuals in thousands of species

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  • 4 votes
#1.24 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 2:18 AM EDT
{"commentId":6567676,"authorDomain":"thirdfeast"}

eriq, although we have not conversed before, I have seen your comments around the vine. Therefore your demented personal attacks do not phase me. Nice try though!

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  • 1 vote
#1.25 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 2:38 AM EDT
{"commentId":6570295,"authorDomain":"jonnyjay70"}

Eriq and the others

let me ask you three questions

1.do you think its ok to rape?

2.Is cannibalism ok?

3. Is infanticide ok?

Mav

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    #1.26 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 11:45 AM EDT
    {"commentId":6570333,"authorDomain":"notsanta"}

    Third? What are you thinking about anal sex? Maybe you and your wife should talk? There is more to life than anal sex.

    Hey you never did mention oral sex, what are your views on that? I hope you only practice missionary position.

    What am I saying, this is stuff that happens in your house. This is none of my business.

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    • 2 votes
    #1.27 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 11:47 AM EDT
    {"commentId":6570379,"authorDomain":"notsanta"}

    No Mav I dont those are crimes. Not a fan of things where there are victims and perpetrators.

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    • 1 vote
    #1.28 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 11:52 AM EDT
    {"commentId":6570615,"authorDomain":"jonnyjay70"}

    Stilll waiting for lady blue,blue boy,zom zom and some of the others to answer these questions.

    Mav

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      #1.29 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 12:15 PM EDT
      {"commentId":6571028,"authorDomain":"blueboy"}

      Mav,

      Here are your answers.

      1. Rape wrong, period. It implies another person takes advantage of a weaker person, or a made weak person, for sex. It violated their very human right to say "no" and refuse sexual relations with a person.

      2. Cannibalism is not only in nature but also very common still in cetain cultures. Some African cultures believe that when someone dies they free their friends spirits by cannibalising their body. I wouldn't do it, so don't get me wrong. Cannibalism is wrong in my eyes simply because I think if someone could eat a dead person and enjoy it then they would more than likely kill people to get the enjoyment again and again like a addiction.

      3. Well...no its not okay, the infant has rights to live, it can't speak for itself and it can't do anything for itself. If a parent neglects their child and leads to its death, or purposely causes the infants death then it's murder. Murder is bad you know ?

      Now that I've answered your questions, you have to answer mine.

      1. Explain to me how these connect since there are victims in every thing you asked.

      2. Since you think that Gay couples somehow involve a victim or is a crime, explain the crime.

      3. What does it take to convince people that homosexuals are happy the way they are and just want to be living their life like everyone else without people interfering with it ?

      Answer it, I do demand it. If you don't I'll chase you down and give you a big wet willy for poor sportsmanship.

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      • 3 votes
      #1.30 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 12:57 PM EDT
      {"commentId":6574348,"authorDomain":"eriqalan"}

      Mav - you addressed me so I will answer you

      1) rape involves force - be it physical force, or emotional, or financial it is still force - i.e. a rape is an assault

      2) Cannibalism - is undefined. Are you talking about killing and eating or just eating. Personally after I am dead, if my body is useful to others either for transplants or dinjner, that is better than burying it (a body is basically toxic waste when buried without a coffin that prevents it from mixing with the ground; cremation is waste and pollution)

      3) Infanticide is also undefined. I figure you are trying to twist this into a pro-choice vs pro-life argument but that involves defining a fetus of 2 days as a infant and no-one would agree with that. What about a situation where you have to quarantine a group that includes infants to protect others from a disease - which means death for the quarantinees, including those infants.

      It is obvious that you are confused and are oversimplifying this to fit your own political / ego stance but it won't hold up.

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      • 3 votes
      #1.31 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 6:01 PM EDT
      {"commentId":6574399,"authorDomain":"eriqalan"}

      Third

      Your arguments are silly, childish; and the video addressed them with humor.

      That was not me, that was the video, the one you refused to watch in your childish, silly temper tantrum

      Word of warning - when you make a comment it says below in the green band "You are posting this comment to a publicly viewable discussion."

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      • 4 votes
      #1.32 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 6:06 PM EDT
      {"commentId":6575387,"authorDomain":"gundy-75"}
      What does it take to convince people that homosexuals are happy the way they are and just want to be living their life like everyone else without people interfering with it ?

      If they were happy the way they were they wouldn't be pushing for marriage...so I guess what it will take is a compromise of civil unions..oh wait, that's already been done.

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        #1.33 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 7:42 PM EDT
        {"commentId":6575424,"authorDomain":"gundy-75"}

        I know I am not mav, but I will take a crack at some of these questions:

        1. Explain to me how these connect since there are victims in every thing you asked.

        It quickly puts the hammer down on the homosexuality "done in the wild" argument. Rape, canibalism, and infanticide are performed in the wild as well. All of these things are conditional may I remind everyone...

        I answered question #3 in my post #1.33.

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          #1.34 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 7:46 PM EDT
          {"commentId":6575654,"authorDomain":"jonnyjay70"}

          What I find most interesting about this little exercise is the answers that you eriq give.
          But I am going to address both of yours and blue boys answers at the same time.
          Both of you pretty much agree that the answer to the first question of rape is a horrible act.
          I think we all can agree about cannibalism Donner party of 12?
          Infanticide has a clear definition; the killing of an infant or young child.
          Now Blue boy you suggest or more or less assume my thought process with your answer.
          1.Explain to me how these connect since there are victims in everything you asked.
          2. Since you think that Gay couples somehow involve a victim or is a crime, explain the crime.
          3. What does it take to convince people that homosexuals are happy the way they are and just want to be living their life like everyone else without people interfering with it ?
          1. You all argue since there is homosexuality in animals that it’s ok for homosexuality in people.
          2. I never once said there was a victim in homosexuality I merely asked a question in fact it was less than 8 words long.
          3. Oh I have no doubt that you’re not happy in your little world. You see the problem I have is you all demand that everyone accepts who you are. You will never hear me demand of you to accept that I am a veteran matter of fact you will never even hear me ask for you to say thank you to me.
          4. Stop interfering with my life and I will stop interfering into yours is this fair enough? You want to suck a dick go ahead shut the hell up about it.
          5. It is obvious that you are confused and are oversimplifying this to fit your own political / ego stance but it won't hold up. To fit my political stance what is my political stance? Do you even know? My ego really? Do you know me have we met before?

          So here we have those of you that are gay, lesbians, transgender demanding the world for acceptance.
          You arguments to justify your life style range from a variety of things that you all find so that you may justify to the world why it is the way you are. Why you can’t just be happy with whom you are and shut up about it. You all used animals to back your debate but you left a few things out. If you do some reading you will see there is a consensus that most scientist really don’t know. But like I say you leave stuff out of your argument so your argument suits your needs.
          Animals in the animal kingdom commit acts of rape it is well documented look it up.
          Can’t a rapist use your same form of logic because animals do it? Why can they not? Is it immoral and wrong?
          Animals also eat each other in the form of cannibalism. If I wanted to gnaw on someone’s arm and eat it can’t I justify my actions using the same logic you all use? Animals do it why can’t I?
          Animals commit infanticide male lions will kill the cubs of another lion.
          Here is a link to an article of infanticide in Norway rats.
          http://www.ratbehavior.org/infanticide.htm
          Can you justify someone killing babies based on your arguments of animals do it?
          What I find interesting is how you take just one little part of something and base your reasons off of it.
          And you completely and totally ignore the rest of it.
          Let me help you out with your argument why are you gay? Answer simple I just happen to like men over women and vice versa simple end of story end of the discussion end of the debate.
          But no we have to come out with stuff like Homophobia Is Killing Our Youth. That’s flat out bull @!$%#
          I should come out with one that says anti-veteran is killing our youth.
          Here you want the solution to all of your problems 1. Shut up stop forcing your views, ideas, sexual orientation the fact that you suck on the sausage or lick the carpet off on everyone else stop demanding everyone accept you. Not everyone accepts who I am quite frankly I could give a Norway rat’s ass.
          Like I have said in the past you’re never going to be happy with gay marriage and acceptance as enough.
          You need more you need other peoples kids and everyone in the world to accept you. You know what they don’t its life and that’s tuff cookies.
          You don’t care that I am a veteran and I don’t give a crap if your gay but what I am fricken sick and tired of is your forcing stuff down my throat because I don’t agree with your views. Here is a clue the world is not going to stop for you live or die it continues to turn.
          Be happy with whom you are be happy with you and your partner be happy knowing not everyone accepts you.

          Mav

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          • 1 vote
          #1.35 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 8:08 PM EDT
          {"commentId":6576222,"authorDomain":"notsanta"}

          Feel better Mav. You know there is more to a relationship besides sex. Why the hell are you thinking of gay sex? Care to share. You are right you should not have things shoved down your throat like the BIBLE.

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          • 4 votes
          #1.36 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 9:00 PM EDT
          {"commentId":6576592,"authorDomain":"jade-log"}

          I feel that some on this thread have decided to beafraid and hate anything they don't understand. Their world's are terribly bound.

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          #1.37 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 9:31 PM EDT
          {"commentId":6577062,"authorDomain":"blueboy"}
          4. Stop interfering with my life and I will stop interfering into yours is this fair enough? You want to suck a dick go ahead shut the hell up about it.
          5. It is obvious that you are confused and are oversimplifying this to fit your own political / ego stance but it won't hold up. To fit my political stance what is my political stance? Do you even know? My ego really? Do you know me have we met before?

          What agenda ? I'm not a homosexual, I just believe in equal rights.

          Don't you know that simplicity is the ultimate intelligence, not only that I'll even quote Einstein: "Make everything as simple as possible, but not simpler." ;).

          It really is THAT simple, you can't deny a group of millions of people that are happy and consentual in their nature just because YOU think it's wrong. No one every said you had to agree with it, I never said that atleast. I cannot speak for everyone else, I won't call you a bigot because you believe it's not natural. But I will call you a bigot if you say anything about God or the bible. Religion has no platform, so why do people try to use it ?

          The best argument for it is the recreational argument, and that's really about it. All other arguments usually stem from homophobic tendecies from sexual crises within the person and Religious beliefs. If you don't believe me, just go look it up, the "liberal" Google will show you.

          You assume too much by thinking I'm a homosexual, I want no more than to just see people get their equal rights, like they deserve as Americans are entitled to.


          So here we have those of you that are gay, lesbians, transgender demanding the world for acceptance.
          You arguments to justify your life style range from a variety of things that you all find so that you may justify to the world why it is the way you are. Why you can’t just be happy with whom you are and shut up about it. You all used animals to back your debate but you left a few things out. If you do some reading you will see there is a consensus that most scientist really don’t know. But like I say you leave stuff out of your argument so your argument suits your needs.
          Animals in the animal kingdom commit acts of rape it is well documented look it up.
          Can’t a rapist use your same form of logic because animals do it? Why can they not? Is it immoral and wrong?

          Well no, because rape infringes on another persons rights. Animals are savages, you know that humans are animals right ? We are savage in our natural nature just like every other animal, rape is one of those savage parts of human and wild animal nature.

          Animals also eat each other in the form of cannibalism. If I wanted to gnaw on someone’s arm and eat it can’t I justify my actions using the same logic you all use? Animals do it why can’t I?
          Animals commit infanticide male lions will kill the cubs of another lion.
          Here is a link to an article of infanticide in Norway rats.

          Read argument above, the same applies.

          Let me help you out with your argument why are you gay? Answer simple I just happen to like men over women and vice versa simple end of story end of the discussion end of the debate.
          But no we have to come out with stuff like Homophobia Is Killing Our Youth. That’s flat out bull @!$%#
          I should come out with one that says anti-veteran is killing our youth.
          Here you want the solution to all of your problems

          Again, you assume too much, I am not Gay. I don't understand how homophobia isn't damaging our youth. People killing themselves because people are torturing them at school constantly is bad, how is that not damaging our youth ?

          I have a strange feeling in my stomach you think the majority rules no matter what. The majority doesn't have the right to make the minority conform to their beliefs because it just so happens the majority feels its just icky to allow marriage.

          1. Shut up stop forcing your views, ideas, sexual orientation the fact that you suck on the sausage or lick the carpet off on everyone else stop demanding everyone accept you. Not everyone accepts who I am quite frankly I could give a Norway rat’s ass.

          Yet again, I'm not foricing MY views or sexual orientation on anyone and neither are they. They want the law to treat them equally as the Consitution demand.

          If you didn't give a "rat's" ass then you wouldn't care to defend traditional marriage, I can see through your rant curtain. Since you can't truly explain why they don't deserve equal rights, you make them seem less equal to make yourself feel better on the inside.

          You don’t care that I am a veteran and I don’t give a crap if your gay but what I am fricken sick and tired of is your forcing stuff down my throat because I don’t agree with your views. Here is a clue the world is not going to stop for you live or die it continues to turn.
          Be happy with whom you are be happy with you and your partner be happy knowing not everyone accepts you.

          Mav

          No ones forcing anything on you, again. They are simply wanting the same right you hold close to your heart. Your rights won't be violated or changed, let's not use our words so loosely here.

          How can someone be happy with who they are if society keeps holding their happyness back ?

          If you TRULY don't care about all of this then why do you care soo much ? If you didn't care you wouldn't be here shouting profanities and claiming everyone that defends human rights is a homosexual.

          Don't get me wrong, I agree with the fact that people should be happy! People just can't be happy when they can't be entitled to the same rights as everyone else.

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          • 4 votes
          #1.38 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 10:12 PM EDT
          {"commentId":6579186,"authorDomain":"jonnyjay70"}

          close blue boy but no cigar

          mav

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            #1.39 - Mon Apr 20, 2009 1:57 AM EDT
            {"commentId":6579431,"authorDomain":"jonnyjay70"}

            Yet again, I'm not foricing MY views or sexual orientation on anyone and neither are they. They want the law to treat them equally as the Consitution demand.

            really there not? can you point to me where in the constitution that it says you must teach homosexuality to children in schools?

            here are the problems that you continue to miss

            http://www.massresistance.org/docs/parker/diversity_book.html

            Kindergartners were given picture books telling them that same-sex couples are just another kind of family, like their own parents. In 2005, when David Parker of Lexington, MA – a parent of a kindergartner – strongly insisted on being notified when teachers were discussing homosexuality or transgenderism with his son, the school had him arrested and put in jail

            http://www.massresistance.org/docs/parker/main.html

            http://www.massresistance.org/docs/gen/09a/NNHS_gayday09/index.html

            http://www.montanasnews.tv/articles.php?mode=view&id=4307

            http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2009/jan/09010812.html

            so everyone's children must be taught that homosexuality is ok lets not teach kids what they need to learn.

            these are the problem's that I have what gives them the right over everyone else to push what they believe off on anyone else rant no not yet but i can rant if you like.

            have a strange feeling in my stomach you think the majority rules no matter what.

            Do you have this same feeling about majority rule when its something you support?

            Blue Boy

            Torch621,

            I think he has made a very valid point, maybe not with sexual acts but his last good comment.

            The amount of spending and deficit growth going on is deadly serious and deserves serious conversation. By not having a clear message when you go out to protest you only serve to confuse the issue and you accomplish nothing. If the messaging had been clearer perhaps there would have been better turnout and a stronger positive response.

            This is what the problem is the turnouts, people don't even know what they are protesting against. Sure, there are a few select people that know EXACTLY what the problem is( or so they believe), but you have these people that I call sheep that don't really even know what's going on in the world.

            Let's just all meet up compare clothing, clap our hands together, and yell, like babies and call it a Tea party.

            Oh, the frickin irony.

            does this ring a bell mr sick feeling in my stomach? so this only applies when the other majority doesn't agree with your views?

            As is stated before its only when it justifies what you want to justify.

            since you can't truly explain why they don't deserve equal rights, you make them seem less equal to make yourself feel better on the inside.

            They have the same fricking rights as you and i they want they gay marriage they are getting it but it still is not good enough it also needs to be taught to children in school.

            And that up there is two states.

            So mr human rights activist im not gay one quick look at every thing you have ever commented on. has to do with gay rights so mr christian mr im not gay where is your out cry on women's rights? where is your out cry on 1000 of mass graves in iraq?

            where is your out cry on genocide?

            where is your outcry on torture?

            and on and on and on and on i find it funny how you sit back smugly and play your little games because someone doesn't agree with your views and your opinions and your human rights escapade for one group of people.

            One more thing mr christian point to me on place one single place verse in the bible where jesus says its ok to be gay and married?
            Oh and i dont even own a bible and i deffienitly do not go to church.

            have a good night mr one sided human rights activist the only human rights you advocate for are of your picking and choosing that makes you a hypocrite.

            And a bad human rights actavist.

            Mav

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              #1.40 - Mon Apr 20, 2009 2:56 AM EDT
              {"commentId":6579439,"authorDomain":"jonnyjay70"}

              i missed the edit time

              does this ring a bell mr sick feeling in my stomach? so this only applies when you are in the majority and they agree with your views?

              Mav

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                #1.41 - Mon Apr 20, 2009 3:02 AM EDT
                {"commentId":6581522,"authorDomain":"notsanta"}

                So Mav do you have an example where some one has shoved something down your throat?

                Do you have anything from the AP and not anti gay groups? I see nothing where it says this was shoved down Mavs throat.

                I live in MA and there is no outcry because there is nothing to outcry. Tell me what happened to that story from 4 years ago? How did it end?

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                • 2 votes
                #1.42 - Mon Apr 20, 2009 9:32 AM EDT
                {"commentId":6581615,"authorDomain":"gbixler"}

                NotSanta,

                Hello from another Ma$$hole! I'll tell you how it ended: a reversal of public opinion. In 2004, Massachusetts residents were split 60-40 opposed to gay marriage. After nearly five years of legality (with no discernible descending of the sky), residents are now split 60-40 in favor of gay marriage.

                If I'm being honest, I'm a bit disappointed in our legislature for never letting this issue come to a vote, if only because it would be fun to see how the far-right reacts when gay marriage is approved by a majority vote of the residents in a state.

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                • 3 votes
                #1.43 - Mon Apr 20, 2009 9:38 AM EDT
                {"commentId":6582678,"authorDomain":"blueboy"}

                They have the same fricking rights as you and i they want they gay marriage they are getting it but it still is not good enough it also needs to be taught to children in school.

                And that up there is two states.

                So mr human rights activist im not gay one quick look at every thing you have ever commented on. has to do with gay rights so mr christian mr im not gay where is your out cry on women's rights? where is your out cry on 1000 of mass graves in iraq?

                Funny, seems you have completely ignored the articles I've wrote that clearly show my stance against racism and sexism.

                You also completely ignored tcomments I've made about the Tea parties saying people would listen to their message if it was more clear. Maybe you should go read all my comments and instead of reading like maybe 3 of them and making your clear cut judgement of me.

                I'm a advocate for Gay rights in particular since I've been lobbying for it for almost 8 years now. I've been in Washington D.C. for the march, I've been donating my own hard earned money to HRC every time I can spare it.

                What have you done for your cause ? Complain and point fingers on internet forums ?

                You don't know me mavrick, not..one..bit.

                have a good night mr one sided human rights activist the only human rights you advocate for are of your picking and choosing that makes you a hypocrite.

                And a bad human rights actavist.

                Right, so if I work harder on a particular oppressed group of people that makes me a hypocrite ?

                I've fought against racism in my area, I would've fought against womens rights being trampled on to, but we don't have that problem here at least.

                here are the problems that you continue to miss

                http://www.massresistance.org/docs/parker/diversity_book.html

                Kindergartners were given picture books telling them that same-sex couples are just another kind of family, like their own parents. In 2005, when David Parker of Lexington, MA – a parent of a kindergartner – strongly insisted on being notified when teachers were discussing homosexuality or transgenderism with his son, the school had him arrested and put in jail

                http://www.massresistance.org/docs/parker/main.html

                http://www.massresistance.org/docs/gen/09a/NNHS_gayday09/index.html

                http://www.montanasnews.tv/articles.php?mode=view&id=4307

                http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2009/jan/09010812.html

                So you think its wrong for children at school to be taught that homosexual people are like everyone else ?

                Ah, I see. It goes to show what I always thought is actually true about religious people.

                Keep em' dumb, and they will follow.

                Yeah, teach your kids that homosexuals are just Godless people with no morals and whatever, brainwash your kids into hating a whole group of people they don't even know.

                That's not like this argument was not used with interracial marriage.

                So your saying it's just flat out okay to let people teach their children that homosexuality is a sin from God and there should be nothing else in their life to tell them different than that ?

                This is like the movie The Waterboy, he goes to school with all this @!$%# his mother told him that is not the truth. This is how bigotry stays alive in the country, people teach their kids their bigoted views about something and then the kids will be raised to believe it and defend it their whole life simply because their parents burned it into their mind.

                I live in Alabama okay, it's not the most liberal place in the world. People here are still very much racist, sexist and very religious.

                Your whole argument is simply this: "I don't think they are equal, and God damn if the schools tell my children that I am ignorant for believing that".

                Well, you are, sorry.

                You still haven't told me how they are forcing their beliefs on you yet. Teaching kids in school that homosexual families exist ( because they do ) is not teaching your kids to be gay or be accept the gay lifestyle. It's simply showing your kid that Gay families do exist in America and through their life they will see them and they shouldn't have to feel like they are anything less of a equal person if they end up being gay.

                Tolerance or not ? If you can't stand the fact that they kids will learn that homosexual families exist in our beautiful country. Is that tolerance ? I think it's blinding your children from the world REALLY is. Not how morally correct you want it to see to be.

                What I find interesting is how right you feel about all of it, you feel it's violating your rights when it's not. The school has the obligation to teach a child so they can have a good future, and your gonna tell a school they can't teach kids that homosexuals are part of American society ? I guess you will also protest when school have homosexuals in the history books saying they were a oppressed society by Republicans and religious extremist.

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                • 3 votes
                #1.44 - Mon Apr 20, 2009 10:34 AM EDT
                {"commentId":6586258,"authorDomain":"thirdfeast"}
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                eriq, your assumptions are hilarious. What an idiot.

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                  #1.45 - Mon Apr 20, 2009 12:51 PM EDT
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                  {"commentId":6557502,"authorDomain":"curiousg"}

                  Very beautiful, ladyblue.

                  Thank you.

                  Peace

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                  • 5 votes
                  Reply#2 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 9:38 AM EDT
                  {"commentId":6565493,"authorDomain":"jade-log"}

                  I am glad I'm no longer a teacher. When I was "fag etc." was mostly in the mouths of athletes.

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                  • 3 votes
                  #2.1 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 9:28 PM EDT
                  {"commentId":6566114,"authorDomain":"consultant13"}
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                  {"commentId":6557622,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
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                  {"commentId":6557697,"authorDomain":"LIAMD"}

                  I have seen a different trend. One facilitated by the demand that all views must be equally respected. The youth of today are sick of the demand that any and all thought processes are of equal value. As a result their generation is more hate filled than many prior generations.

                  Most of the kids I see and talk to no longer care if you're gay or into interracial relationships, etc. but what they are sick of is groupism and the belief that one group is better or more deserving of of something just because they say they deserve it. This doesn't come from home this comes from observation in their daily lives.

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                  • 1 vote
                  Reply#4 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 9:54 AM EDT
                  {"commentId":6558023,"authorDomain":"solarglare"}

                  Liamd, I think this is an interesting point. I'm not sure I entirely agree, but here is my question:

                  You say:

                  One facilitated by the demand that all views must be equally respected.

                  then:

                  one group is better or more deserving of of something just because they say they deserve it.

                  Here is my question, doesn't a group saying they are better or more deserving go against the 'see every idea equally'? I would say that those groups that claim superiority is a throwback to the old paradigm. Your response?

                  I do see where you are coming from. I think where this movement of 'everything equally' should be modified to where each idea is equal in conception, but also equal judgement. One group's idea shouldn't be accepted simply because they are a big group, but should be analyzed and judged just like every other idea. I don't see this as accepting all ideas, but judging all ideas equally. Calling a potato a potato, and sh*t as sh*t.

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                  • 2 votes
                  #4.1 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:18 AM EDT
                  {"commentId":6558409,"authorDomain":"blueboy"}

                  LIAMD,

                  I'd like to know how you come the accusation that Gays think they are better, or more deserving than others.

                  They just want to be treated the same, myself being youthful, I've never met anyone in person that thinks Gays want to be better than everyone else. People simply don't want them to be considered equal to them because they think they are less, and that's how they want it to stay.

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                  • 8 votes
                  #4.2 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:49 AM EDT
                  {"commentId":6559917,"authorDomain":"slincoln-wx"}
                  but what they are sick of is groupism and the belief that one group is better or more deserving of of something just because they say they deserve it.

                  I completely agree. This is why DOMA must be repealed immediately, and the christian-privileged special rights of heterosexuals must be applied to all citizens.

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                  • 4 votes
                  #4.3 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 12:43 PM EDT
                  {"commentId":6561077,"authorDomain":"cleareyes"}
                  I think where this movement of 'everything equally' should be modified to where each idea is equal in conception, but also equal judgement. One group's idea shouldn't be accepted simply because they are a big group, but should be analyzed and judged just like every other idea

                  I see where you're coming from but I think this is exactly the problem liamd is talking about. The idea of "different but equal" is easy in theory but not very easy for people to practice. Humans like believing they are right, just look at religion. And so if you allow equal judgement, then people are going to think one is better than the other.

                  I think what we need to do is stop looking at the differences all together. Just as many people don't even think twice about inter-racial couples (unfortunately some do still), we should do the same same sex couples. Make it not even an issue, so that it doesn't matter at all. It's not specifically two man or two women together, its just two people in love.

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                  • 2 votes
                  #4.4 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 2:07 PM EDT
                  {"commentId":6561114,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                  MatBDeleted
                  {"commentId":6561204,"authorDomain":"cleareyes"}

                  How is that relevant?

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                  • 2 votes
                  #4.6 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 2:17 PM EDT
                  {"commentId":6561230,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                  MatBDeleted
                  {"commentId":6561261,"authorDomain":"cleareyes"}

                  Whos he? Sorry but what difference of right and wrong?

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                  • 2 votes
                  #4.8 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 2:23 PM EDT
                  {"commentId":6563343,"authorDomain":"zomzom"}
                  what they are sick of is groupism and the belief that one group is better or more deserving of of something just because they say they deserve it.

                  As one of those youths, I absolutely agree. No one group is more deserving, for instance, of the right to marry, than is another

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                  • 2 votes
                  #4.9 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 5:28 PM EDT
                  {"commentId":6565252,"authorDomain":"eriqalan"}

                  Liam - I am confused at your illogic statements. How does " the demand that all views must be equally respected." have anything to do with " As a result their generation is more hate filled than many prior generations." How can equal respect relate in any way to hate? And how do you determine that this generation is more hate filled?

                  Lets not forget that this is the first instant news generation, first internet generation and everything is much more public with them - there may simply be more coverage.

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                  • 2 votes
                  #4.10 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 8:58 PM EDT
                  {"commentId":6565574,"authorDomain":"jade-log"}

                  Important idea that is too often ignored.

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                  • 2 votes
                  #4.11 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 9:39 PM EDT
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                  {"commentId":6557796,"authorDomain":"vhm6"}

                  I think killing in this case is an expression. Even though hate murder is relatively rare (and this simply should not be), hate behaviour is seen everyday. I also agree that hate is learned. Some people have little means to judge for themselves - they simply repeat what they've heard. Maybe we can see a change as people's education and general culture improve. Discrimination is just a measure of people's education.

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                  • 4 votes
                  Reply#5 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:01 AM EDT
                  {"commentId":6557814,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                  MatBDeleted
                  {"commentId":6558006,"authorDomain":"vismajor"}

                  School choice is such a lie

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                  • 4 votes
                  #5.2 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:16 AM EDT
                  {"commentId":6558016,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                  MatBDeleted
                  {"commentId":6558046,"authorDomain":"vismajor"}

                  All the people or just the ones the private schools get to pick?

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                  • 4 votes
                  #5.4 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:19 AM EDT
                  {"commentId":6558081,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
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                  {"commentId":6558145,"authorDomain":"vismajor"}

                  Really? In your world there are enough private schools for everyone? And these private schools won't raise their rates once every kid has 6k in hand and demand shoots through the roof? I guess the gov't will regulate the price and not the free market, right? And the schools won't compete for the richest and smartest. The average and below average and poor will have equal access.

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                  • 7 votes
                  #5.6 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:27 AM EDT
                  {"commentId":6558176,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
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                  {"commentId":6558233,"authorDomain":"vismajor"}

                  Because it doesn't work. You haven't considered what will happen. There are people who can afford 6k without vouchers. Give every kid 6k and now some can afford 12k. The school will raise rates so it stays exclusive. They want the best kids and with high demand the school gets to pick the students not the other way around. Once all the slots are filled, what do you do with the kids still without a school?

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                  • 7 votes
                  #5.8 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:34 AM EDT
                  {"commentId":6558254,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
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                  {"commentId":6558288,"authorDomain":"vismajor"}

                  It works as a pilot program because it's along side the public school system not a total replacement for it. Tell me why free market forces won't attach? Really try to answer that. Look at the Ivy League schools. Why do they charge so much? Because they can.

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                  • 5 votes
                  #5.10 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:39 AM EDT
                  {"commentId":6558315,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
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                  {"commentId":6558440,"authorDomain":"vismajor"}

                  Harvard doesn't take money out of the public universities. Do you want everyone to get a voucher to Harvard wight the voucher amount to come out of the state school's budget? (Look, another question you will ignore as too hard) It's intelligent thought you hate isn't it.

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                  • 3 votes
                  #5.12 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:52 AM EDT
                  {"commentId":6558474,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                  MatBDeleted
                  {"commentId":6562652,"authorDomain":"gundy-75"}

                  You have no plan, MatB. You have an idea solely based off of a one shot deal type of thinking. Vis is right, you haven't even begun to consider...

                  Last time I checked, poor kids were allowed in public schools as were rich kids.

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                  • 2 votes
                  #5.14 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 4:23 PM EDT
                  {"commentId":6563864,"authorDomain":"lyamwhite"}

                  MatB: I actually support vouchers in theory. In practice, I'd just like to make sure there are viable options for parents who don't want their kids indoctrinated in the tenets of someone else's mythology along with the reading, writing, science, math, and arts.

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                  • 2 votes
                  #5.15 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 6:20 PM EDT
                  {"commentId":6565593,"authorDomain":"jade-log"}
                  Public schools get more money than Iraq

                  Could you document this?

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                  • 1 vote
                  #5.16 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 9:42 PM EDT
                  {"commentId":6566026,"authorDomain":"ladyblue999"}

                  I'd like to see documentation too. It seems such an extreme statement.

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                  • 2 votes
                  #5.17 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:36 PM EDT
                  Reply
                  {"commentId":6558127,"authorDomain":"vhm6"}

                  I am an atheist and I had great part of my education in a Marist school (I feel they were more concerned about social disparities than about personal or philosophical differences). Anyway, my parents were extremely conservative and I know from experience that being different may bear a high cost. School is just a part of the solution.

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                  • 3 votes
                  Reply#6 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:25 AM EDT
                  {"commentId":6558221,"authorDomain":"ladyblue999"}

                  I would agree that schools are only part of the solution. Many attitudes, positive and negative, are learned behavior that are brought to school from the homes of the students.

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                  • 4 votes
                  #6.1 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:33 AM EDT
                  {"commentId":6565612,"authorDomain":"jade-log"}

                  What would it take to help adults be more accepting?

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                  • 2 votes
                  #6.2 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 9:44 PM EDT
                  Reply
                  {"commentId":6559665,"authorDomain":"havens11"}

                  A real Christian hates the gay lifestyle and loves the Gays, for we are all God's Children. To hate gays is to sin. To hate any person is to sin for we are all God's Children. It is easy to hate and hard to love those who are different.

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                  • 2 votes
                  Reply#7 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 12:26 PM EDT
                  {"commentId":6560048,"authorDomain":"slincoln-wx"}

                  And to use the Bible erroneously in an ignorant attempt to deliberately restrict the laws of gays/lesbians is also unchristian and immoral. So 6 passages, out of tens of thousands, out of a thousand year old book, written by humans, in a different language, have been used to spread ignorance about sexual orientation. This assumes no misinterpretations or mistranlations at any stage of the process. I think that using such shaky, prejudiced reasoning to call a non-heterosexual orientation a "sin," when there exists mountains of peer-reviewed scientific evidence showing this to be normalcy of humans and hundreds of other species, one is definitely not following in Christ's footsteps.

                  A real christian hates the christianist lifestyle, but realizes that the person can change if they chose knowlege over ignorance. But it is their choice, for one cannot force another to not be ignorant.

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                  • 12 votes
                  #7.1 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 12:52 PM EDT
                  {"commentId":6560116,"authorDomain":"blueboy"}

                  Very nicely said Scott, I'm impressed and delighted to have read that.

                  Friend request sent.

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                  • 5 votes
                  #7.2 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 12:57 PM EDT
                  {"commentId":6560953,"authorDomain":"chiclet024"}

                  Ozark ~

                  'Love the sinner, hate the sin' works when it comes to a lot of issues, but it seems to me that it can't work when it comes to sexuality. Sexuality is too much the fiber of one's being, too close to how someone fundamentally understands themselves. There is little room for separation of the 'sin' and the 'sinner.' In many cases, 'love the sinner, hate the sin' could be a life-giving middle ground, but sexuality is different. Perhaps this is part of why sexuality is such a volatile issue. It doens't seem to me that there is a life-giving middle ground. There is either the fullness of love, inclusion, acceptance or there is not. To continue to 'hate the sin' dillutes the 'love for the sinner' when it comes to sexuality and without the fullness of love acceptance is an illusion.

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                  • 4 votes
                  #7.3 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 1:59 PM EDT
                  {"commentId":6562991,"authorDomain":"gundy-75"}
                  Sexuality is too much the fiber of one's being, too close to how someone fundamentally understands themselves.

                  What a load...Ozark is absolutely right.

                  And to use the Bible erroneously in an ignorant attempt to deliberately restrict the laws of gays/lesbians is also unchristian and immoral.

                  Wait wait wait...when did Ozark say this? Must have been somewhere in this post:

                  A real Christian hates the gay lifestyle and loves the Gays, for we are all God's Children. To hate gays is to sin. To hate any person is to sin for we are all God's Children. It is easy to hate and hard to love those who are different.

                  ...Nope, couldn't find it...

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                  • 2 votes
                  #7.4 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 4:53 PM EDT
                  {"commentId":6566540,"authorDomain":"thirdfeast"}

                  Agreed Ozark.

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                  • 1 vote
                  #7.5 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 11:41 PM EDT
                  Reply
                  {"commentId":6559782,"authorDomain":"tonys247"}

                  ladyblue999..."If hate is learned, then it lies on the shoulders of our schools, church officials, parents, teachers, and communities to teach our young kids acceptance before they continue hurting each other, and before they become adults who will likely pass their hatred to the next generation"...there's a big problem with that thinking because the school of thought/reasoning takes place in the home first!!!... the child becomes indoctrinated at a very early age and the behavior and responses mimic those of the dominant parent.. if the other institutions teach/preach against it then the child seeks out others like minded as him/herself for comfort/assurance... the cycle perpetuates itself... i remember reading about a russian couple who took a child and exposed him to chopin, mozart, reading, mathematics, higher function thought processes and the child thrived and excelled and surpassed their ability to teach him further...then they were going to duplicate the experiment with two children, one white, the other black, to show that equal educational opportunities and living and nurturing environments result in equal outcomes...all this to disprove the notion/belief in the superiority of one race over the other... if you can't get people to think alike as per prejudices then it will forever exist, maybe not as overtly as in the past or as violenty as hate crimes but it will fester like a slow growing cancer and raise its head up at opportune times

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                  • 4 votes
                  Reply#8 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 12:33 PM EDT
                  {"commentId":6560635,"authorDomain":"SereneLove"}

                  Science needs to find a way to determine unborn fetus is herteosexual or homosexual. You will see suddenly change of stance on abortion issue from pro-life anti-abortionist Right Wing Christian Republican Conservatives.

                  Pro-life anti-abortionist Right Wing Christian Republican Conservatives will definetly want to kills unborn fetus babies knowing it be homosexual. Why? It is in the Bible to kill Homosexuals according to some people way of interpreting the Bible.

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                  • 3 votes
                  Reply#9 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 1:35 PM EDT
                  {"commentId":6560891,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                  MatBDeleted
                  {"commentId":6562004,"authorDomain":"blueboy"}

                  They are just calling for separation from them ? I mean, they are immoral right ? You keep comparing them to murders and child molesters, we separate ourselves from them.

                  I just wanna see consistency in your beliefs, so far I don't see any. I see just flat out homophobia.

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                  • 2 votes
                  #9.2 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 3:29 PM EDT
                  {"commentId":6562039,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                  MatBDeleted
                  {"commentId":6562075,"authorDomain":"alwaypwns"}

                  Relative things. Right = good for society (stable) Wrong = bad for society (unstable).

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                    #9.4 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 3:36 PM EDT
                    {"commentId":6562127,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                    MatBDeleted
                    {"commentId":6562247,"authorDomain":"alwaypwns"}

                    *Godwins law fulfilled* Well, I see it is no longer worth my time talking to you.

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                    • 3 votes
                    #9.6 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 3:52 PM EDT
                    {"commentId":6565363,"authorDomain":"eriqalan"}

                    "Godwins law" is such crap; it is valid to compare one situation to the Nazi's, particularly in this case as the Nazi's DID have a death sentence for anyone thought to be homosexual (they didn't actually have to prove it)

                    Yes yhere are absolute rights and wrongs and it is wrong to discriminate against homosexuals on the basis of either their or your religion; and it is wrong to attempt to create a second class system of Marriage because of your reloigion or theirs and it is wrong to not accept their full legal equality in all things including marriage.

                    It is wrong because we have a constitution that says what we believe to be rigtht and wrong and it is against freedom of religion and equal protection under the law to doscriminate in this way

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                    • 3 votes
                    #9.7 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 9:11 PM EDT
                    {"commentId":6567009,"authorDomain":"christopher-calbat"}

                    Eriq, and twenty years later , the republican party (fueled by the religious right, namely Anita Bennet who was the face of the movement) sought to have every homosexual institutionalized for 'sexual reprogramming'

                    Those who fail to learn from history...you know the rest.

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                    • 2 votes
                    #9.8 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 12:35 AM EDT
                    Reply
                    {"commentId":6560654,"authorDomain":"kaiji"}

                    Any source of hatred is bad enough, but 'christian' homophobia is especially vile. There are some who will say that homophobia is a illusion conjured up to discriminate against believers, but that is pure nonsense.

                    Even if someone believes in christianity, there is still no good reason to succumb to hatred of homosexuals or their 'agenda' (which is ridiculous, being human rights nothing more or less).

                    According to christianity:

                    1. Everyone is made in the image of God. Doing violence to your fellow man, therefore, is...

                    2. Jesus, who they claim as their Lord, died for humanity. So to harm those whom one's superior, and one's role-model, paid a heavy price to help is...

                    3. "All have sinned..." As christians commonly reiterate, all sin is equally dire and everyone needs God. So even if homosexuality is sin, hatred to homosexuality is condemnation of one's self.

                    4. If christianity is seen as the perfection of a person and sin the imperfection, then some say homosexuality is imperfection. If even if homosexuality really *is* imperfection, would you throw stones at the blind? Kick the legs of the lame?

                    Homophobia, especially by christians, must end.

                    Love all people and let God sort it out.

                    (P.S. Get checked if coersion and threats complete your vision of love.)

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                    • 5 votes
                    Reply#10 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 1:36 PM EDT
                    {"commentId":6560882,"authorDomain":"AalafAlot"}

                    During the Prop 8 campaign in California. Ther were many Anti-Same Sex Marriage supporters holding up signs saying allowing gay marriage violates their religious freedoms.

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                    • 3 votes
                    #10.1 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 1:53 PM EDT
                    {"commentId":6560995,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                    MatBDeleted
                    {"commentId":6561050,"authorDomain":"blueboy"}

                    What does their Religious beliefs have to do with the law MatB ?

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                    • 5 votes
                    #10.3 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 2:05 PM EDT
                    {"commentId":6561122,"authorDomain":"SirThinkswaytoomuch"}

                    Your rights, MatB, end where mine begin.

                    Look at how we frown on those who use serpants in worship. Or the prosecution of Christian Scientists who's children have died. The minute you begin to impede on the rights of anyone else, you lose your right.

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                    • 5 votes
                    #10.4 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 2:10 PM EDT
                    {"commentId":6561159,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                    MatBDeleted
                    {"commentId":6561481,"authorDomain":"jwbuchan"}
                    The minute you begin to impede on the rights of anyone else, you lose your right

                    Absolutely untrue. There's a reason that they are called "inalienable".

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                    • 2 votes
                    #10.6 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 2:44 PM EDT
                    {"commentId":6561576,"authorDomain":"cleareyes"}

                    Your rights only go as far until they impede on others. If you do that, you don't lose your rights but the social contract with our government is that you have to repay your debt to not only the individual, but society, for your actions.

                    Christian Scientists are different because they do not have rights to the life of their child. They are guardians, meant to protect the rights of a minor until a certain age. By not allowing their children to get proper medical care, they are infringing on the child's rights and should be prosecuted should the child die.

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                    • 2 votes
                    #10.7 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 2:52 PM EDT
                    {"commentId":6561597,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                    MatBDeleted
                    {"commentId":6561618,"authorDomain":"SirThinkswaytoomuch"}
                    Absolutely untrue. There's a reason that they are called "inalienable".

                    But is the right to discriminate, the right to oppress, the right to deny others rights in the Constitution? In the Declaration? Anywhere? No.

                    You have no right to dictate how others live, and your right to religious freedom ends where the liberties of another to live freely begins.

                    Waiiiit, abortion's legal but what they do isn't?

                    One is a human being who cannot care for themselves, one is a lump of cells that is part of a woman's body. It isn't a comparison.

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                    • 5 votes
                    #10.9 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 2:56 PM EDT
                    {"commentId":6561636,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                    MatBDeleted
                    {"commentId":6561665,"authorDomain":"SirThinkswaytoomuch"}

                    And who defines an immoral act? Murder is theft, theft of another man's right to live. Victimless crimes are not crimes at all.

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                    • 1 vote
                    #10.11 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 2:59 PM EDT
                    {"commentId":6561694,"authorDomain":"cleareyes"}

                    Actually people are usually arrested after they committ the act. And not acts that are immoral, acts that infringe on others rights.

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                    • 1 vote
                    #10.12 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 3:02 PM EDT
                    {"commentId":6563665,"authorDomain":"gbixler"}

                    The argument "your rights exist only insofar as my rights are not violated" is well founded in our law. John Marshall, the fourth (I think) Chief Justice of SCOTUS wrote, rather famously, "Your right to freedom of speech ends where my nose begins." Essentially, he was saying just what these people above are saying: your rights will only be protected so long as the free exercise of your rights do not infringe upon the rights of others.

                    It's the same premise found in John Locke's social contract, upon which many of our laws are based. In the state of nature, man is free to express himself however he chooses, but when he joins society, he necessarily gives up some of that freedom for the advancement of society as a whole.

                    We do not, by the way, prevent people from committing "immoral acts". We prevent people from infringing on the rights of others. If we prevented people from committing "immoral acts", adultery would be against the law.

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                    • 2 votes
                    #10.13 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 6:00 PM EDT
                    {"commentId":6563848,"authorDomain":"notsanta"}

                    Mat Are you confusing immoral with crime?

                    There are millions of people who listen to Howard Stern, and there are those who think what he does and says is immoral, the same for fox news. None of what they do has yet to be considered a crime.

                    Immoral is subjective.

                    Now the Bible says that a man shall not lie with another man. That is true. But it also says, in the same exact book, that adultery is an abomination. And the just punishment for this sin is execution. So, who will execute the first adulterer? Please step on up. May the one without any Biblical sin cast the first stone.

                    Here is a question no one can answer -- and lucky for the right wing, the media never bothers to ask -- why do you only focus on the part of the Bible against homosexuality but not on the part against adultery? It's one thing to say you're against adultery; it's another to take away their rights. How come no religious figure in this country has mounted a campaign to take away the rights of adulterers? Let alone execute them.

                    I'll tell you why. Because there are too many of them. Their followers are adulterers. They don't make for good scapegoats. They are not an easy target to ostracize and focus your hatred on. Gays are perfect. They are a small enough percentage of the population and different enough from the rest of us to be able to get people to focus their negative, barbaric instincts on them. The Bible is only a tool for this tribal, ugly tactic.

                    But I am tired of hearing people saying that homosexuality is a sin in the Bible when they never quote the rest of the Bible (probably because a great majority of church goers have never independently read the Bible or they have built up a reservoir of excuses for the parts they find inconvenient). So, from now, I would like to tell the Rick Warrens of the world, you are perfectly allowed to say how much you would like to take gay people's rights away from them based on the Bible so long as you agree to do one thing first -- execute an adulterer.

                    If you can do that for me, then I'll believe that you actually believe in the Bible literally and will accept your literal argument against homosexuality. Fair is fair. Step on up

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                    • 3 votes
                    #10.14 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 6:18 PM EDT
                    {"commentId":6563963,"authorDomain":"lyamwhite"}

                    MatB: Wrong. We have the right to stop others from commiting immoral acts. As evident by the fact that we arrest murderers.

                    But there are fundamental differences between the "immorality" of murder or theft and the "immorality" of homosexuality, pornography, or recreational drug use. For one thing, there's usually one participant in murder or theft who didn't opt to be there; for another, the damage inflicted thereby is objectively, empirically measurable.

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                    • 2 votes
                    #10.15 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 6:31 PM EDT
                    {"commentId":6564389,"authorDomain":"AalafAlot"}

                    Hey NotSanta, you can add the following things from the Bible too.

                    Burn The Daughter!

                    "And the daughter of any priest, if she profane herself by playing the whore, she profaneth her father: she shall be burnt with fire." (Leviticus 21:9)

                    I can guarantee, not all daughters of priest, ministers, deacons etc are Virgins before marriage.

                    -----------------------

                    Rape My Daughter

                    "Behold, here is my daughter a maiden, and his concubine; them I will bring out now, and humble ye them, and do with them what seemeth good unto you: but unto this man do not so vile a thing. But the men would not hearken to him: so the man took his concubine, and brought her forth unto them; and they knew her, and abused her all the night until the morning: and when the day began to spring, they let her go." (Judges 19:24-25)

                    I do not see father offering their daughters to other men to violate.


                    Here is a great source of Dark contents of the Bible.

                    http://www.nobeliefs.com/DarkBible/DarkBibleContents.htm

                    -------------------------------

                    It funny, Christians can pick and choose what scriptures to use and ignore the rest. If you are suppose to take the literal word of the Bible as people does for Homosexuality, then you should take literal word listed Dark Bible Content too.

                    The other day, my coworker has some shell fish. He got really sick from it. It was undercooked. Since he a Christian and bible talks about not eating Shellfish. My guess, he should start preaching about the evils of Shellfish.



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                    • 4 votes
                    #10.16 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 7:16 PM EDT
                    {"commentId":6564415,"authorDomain":"gundy-75"}

                    Are we really making this about Religion?

                    Enough...

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                      #10.17 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 7:19 PM EDT
                      {"commentId":6564431,"authorDomain":"notsanta"}

                      Did you watch the video. Tell them enough.

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                        #10.18 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 7:21 PM EDT
                        {"commentId":6565466,"authorDomain":"eriqalan"}

                        I found this a few years back

                        The following is a very strong and moving letter written by the mother of
                        a gay boy in Vermont...

                        "Many letters have been sent to the Valley News concerning the homosexual
                        menace in Vermont. I am the mother of a gay son and I've taken enough from
                        you good people. I'm tired of your foolish rhetoric about the "homosexual
                        agenda" and your allegations that accepting homosexuality is the same thing
                        as advocating sex with children. You are cruel and ignorant. You have been
                        robbing me of the joys of motherhood ever since my children were tiny.

                        My firstborn son started suffering at the hands of the moral little thugs from
                        your moral, upright families from the time he was in the first grade. He was
                        physically and verbally abused from first grade straight through high school
                        because he was perceived to be gay.

                        He never professed to be gay or had any association with anything gay, but
                        he had the misfortune not to walk or have gestures like the other boys. He
                        was called "fag" incessantly, starting when he was 6.

                        In high school, while your children were doing what kids that age should be
                        doing, mine labored over a suicide note, drafting and redrafting it to be sure
                        his family knew how much he loved them. My sobbing 17-year-old tore the
                        heart out of me as he choked out that he just couldn't bear to continue living
                        any longer, that he didn't want to be gay and that he couldn't face a life without
                        dignity.

                        You have the audacity to talk about protecting families and children from the
                        homosexual menace, while you yourselves tear apart families and drive children
                        to despair. I don't know why my son is gay, but I do know that God didn't put him,
                        and millions like him, on this Earth to give you someone to abuse. God gave you
                        brains so that you could think, and it's about time you started doing that.

                        At the core of all your misguided beliefs is the belief that this could never happen
                        to you, that there is some kind of subculture out there that people have chosen to
                        join. The fact is that if it can happen to my family, it can happen to yours, and you
                        won't get to choose. Whether it is genetic or whether something occurs during a
                        critical time of fetal development, I don't know. I can only tell you with an absolute
                        certainty that it is inborn.

                        If you want to tout your own morality, you'd best come up with something more
                        substantive than your heterosexuality. You did nothing to earn it; it was given to
                        you. If you disagree, I would be interested in hearing your story, because my own
                        heterosexuality was a blessing I received with no effort whatsoever on my part.
                        It is so woven into the very soul of me that nothing could ever change it. For those
                        of you who reduce sexual orientation to a simple choice, a character issue, a bad
                        habit or something that can be changed by a 10-step program, I'm puzzled. Are
                        you saying that your own sexual orientation is nothing more than something you
                        have chosen, that you could change it at will? If that's not the case, then why
                        would you suggest that someone else can?

                        A popular theme in your letters is that Vermont has been infiltrated by outsiders.
                        Both sides of my family have lived in Vermont for generations. I am heart and soul
                        a Vermonter, so I'll thank you to stop saying that you are speaking for "true
                        Vermonters."

                        You invoke the memory of the brave people who have fought on the battlefield for
                        this great country, saying that they didn't give their lives so that the "homosexual
                        agenda" could tear down the principles they died defending. My 83-year-old father
                        fought in some of the most horrific battles of World War II, was wounded and awarded
                        the Purple Heart.

                        He shakes his head in sadness at the life his grandson has had to live. He says he
                        fought alongside homosexuals in those battles, that they did their part and bothered
                        no one. One of his best friends in the service was gay, and he never knew it until the
                        end, and when he did find out, it mattered not at all. That wasn't the measure of the
                        man.

                        You religious folk just can't bear the thought that as my son emerges from the hell
                        that was his childhood he might like to find a lifelong companion and have a measure
                        of happiness. It offends your sensibilities that he should request the right to visit that
                        companion in the hospital, to make medical decisions for him or to benefit from tax
                        laws governing inheritance.

                        How dare he? you say. These outrageous requests would threaten the very existence
                        of your family, would undermine the sanctity of marriage. You use religion to abdicate
                        your responsibility to be thinking human beings. There are vast numbers of religious
                        people who find your attitudes repugnant. God is not for the privileged majority, and
                        God knows my son has committed no sin.

                        The deep-thinking author of a letter to the April 12 Valley News who lectures about
                        homosexual sin and tells us about "those of us who have been blessed with the benefits
                        of a religious upbringing" asks: "What ever happened to the idea of striving . . . to be
                        better human beings than we are?"

                        Indeed, sir, what ever happened to that? "
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                        • 3 votes
                        #10.19 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 9:24 PM EDT
                        {"commentId":6567066,"authorDomain":"thirdfeast"}

                        Funny how certain groups say please don't attack us, yet they then go on the attack.

                        Just saying...notsanta aalafalot

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                        • 2 votes
                        #10.20 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 12:43 AM EDT
                        Reply
                        {"commentId":6561040,"authorDomain":"chiclet024"}

                        Ladyblue ~

                        Thanks for the seed.

                        'I have faith that one day those who attack in the name of "their" god will discover that they are also attacking themselves.' Beautifully put. It is powerfully important that we learn and remember that in attacking others we also attack ourselves.

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                        • 2 votes
                        Reply#11 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 2:04 PM EDT
                        {"commentId":6566090,"authorDomain":"ladyblue999"}

                        I just don't know. The whole concept of religion frightens me. Religion seems to be just a license to hate those that are different and don't adhere to so-called accepted behavior.

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                        #11.1 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:44 PM EDT
                        {"commentId":6566461,"authorDomain":"scoot1965"}
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                        {"commentId":6566891,"authorDomain":"SirThinkswaytoomuch"}

                        It is not the God so much as it his/hers/its followers. They're the scary ones.

                        I like your Christ. I do not like your Christians. They are so unlike your Christ. –Gandhi

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                        #11.3 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 12:22 AM EDT
                        {"commentId":6566934,"authorDomain":"thirdfeast"}

                        Does this mean gays have double standards? Don't attack us but please overlook the fact that we are attacking you.

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                          #11.4 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 12:26 AM EDT
                          {"commentId":6567018,"authorDomain":"SirThinkswaytoomuch"}

                          But, are the fundamental lifestyle choices of Christians being legistlated against? Are they being denied a fundamental right?

                          I wouldn't have any problem with Conservative-Christians if they followed one simple rule: live and let live.

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                          #11.5 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 12:37 AM EDT
                          {"commentId":6567117,"authorDomain":"scoot1965"}
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                          {"commentId":6567196,"authorDomain":"SirThinkswaytoomuch"}

                          I don't want to be part of a societal construct created for the control of the masses. I am capable of having my own spiritual thought.

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                          #11.7 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 1:00 AM EDT
                          {"commentId":6567253,"authorDomain":"scoot1965"}
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                          {"commentId":6567293,"authorDomain":"SirThinkswaytoomuch"}

                          Because, I can't stand organized religion. I can't stand an organization that preeches hate. I can't stand a doctrine, however convoluted, that marginalizes minorities.

                          You seem very comfortable in your own spirituality

                          I am comfertable in my knowledge that I don't know. I don't know, and I don't profess to know. All I know is that I am the only one who has steerage of my course.

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                          #11.9 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 1:14 AM EDT
                          {"commentId":6567315,"authorDomain":"scoot1965"}
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                          {"commentId":6567424,"authorDomain":"SirThinkswaytoomuch"}
                          Have I been talking about organized religion in our discussion tonight. No, I haven't.

                          I don't have the answers, you don't have the answers, the Pope doesn't have the answers, no one does. And that is the point. I won't list God as a reference in anything, because I don't know. That is why I oppose those who proport to have all the answers - because they don't and can't.

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                          #11.11 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 1:38 AM EDT
                          {"commentId":6570416,"authorDomain":"notsanta"}

                          I never said dont attack me. Knock yourself out.

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                            #11.12 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 11:55 AM EDT
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                            {"commentId":6561269,"authorDomain":"betsyross-21ct"}

                            Actually tolerance is actually the basis of true Christianity, not the false Christianity practiced and taught by many churches. The parable of the Good Samaritan proves that. The Samaritan's were the most hated group by the Jews at the time. And tolerance of other faiths is also the basis of Jesus "love they neighbor AS thyself."

                            The militant gay community, however, is just as much to blame - in my opinion. There are many in the gay community that do not support, for example, this push for "legalizing" civil marriages because they also realize that there is a downside to that movement. Divorce. And also that you are "inviting in" with such a movement the government into your relationship, bottom line. Why make an "oral" contract in front of a magistrate, when you can privately make one with simply two witnesses insofar as property division, etc., without the state becoming involved and save the fees for the license?

                            With wills, powers of attorney, joint ownership and tenancy laws, and the removal of "fault" for divorce in all state throughout the nation, I really am at a loss at what "privileges" gays believe that married people have that they don't, or can't correct with a few cheap legal documents you can pick up in a bookstore.

                            And I think that is what really sets the religious community off. Attempts to "redefine" marriage - since gays have existed since Roman times, and even the Romans - a pagan nation - defined marriage according to "nature's law," as between a man and a woman.

                            So gays playing the victim in what is going on is a spin. It is the militant "in your face" movement that, for whatever reason, a good many in this country also hold to the concept of marriage that the founders recognized - "natural, or nature's law."

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                            Reply#12 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 2:24 PM EDT
                            {"commentId":6561279,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                            MatBDeleted
                            {"commentId":6561323,"authorDomain":"SirThinkswaytoomuch"}
                            Wrong Betsy. We shouldn't tolerate evil. At all.

                            Correct. Thus, we shouldn't tolerate hatred of any group, as hatred is the path to the dark side...

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                            #12.2 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 2:29 PM EDT
                            {"commentId":6561365,"authorDomain":"cleareyes"}
                            Wrong Betsy. We shouldn't tolerate evil. At all.

                            Correct but that is evil and what isn't is the real question.

                            I'd say more but Karen Armstrong says it better than I ever could on ted. The Golden Rule

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                            #12.3 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 2:33 PM EDT
                            {"commentId":6562157,"authorDomain":"alwaypwns"}

                            Before Roman times actually, it was also common in Greek culture, and I would bet it goes back even farther than that.

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                            #12.4 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 3:42 PM EDT
                            {"commentId":6562775,"authorDomain":"Shrubluv"}

                            Militant gay has to be one of the better fear words the homophobes have come up with. Have you ever seen an army of 'TEH GHEYS' coming down your street to diddle your little kids?

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                            #12.5 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 4:33 PM EDT
                            {"commentId":6562957,"authorDomain":"alwaypwns"}
                            Militant gay has to be one of the better fear words the homophobes have come up with. Have you ever seen an army of 'TEH GHEYS' coming down your street to diddle your little kids?

                            LOL, the mental image that gave me is hillarious! A solid column of rainbow shirts marching down the road with children running away screaming. Hehe...

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                            #12.6 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 4:51 PM EDT
                            {"commentId":6563697,"authorDomain":"gbixler"}

                            Betsy,

                            You're right about the Good Samaritan, but I always preferred the woman at the well. Jesus found a lone woman getting water from her well at midday. Now, in those times, the women of a village would always get their water together, in the evening, so Jesus knew she was an outcast. He spoke kindly to her and she was amazed, further evidence that she was considered a pariah. The fact that he treated her as an equal illustrates how opposed he was to social divisions, and underscores his teaching of compassion, love and acceptance.

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                            #12.7 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 6:03 PM EDT
                            {"commentId":6563970,"authorDomain":"lyamwhite"}

                            MatB: Wrong Betsy. We shouldn't tolerate evil. At all.

                            Maybe not. But on whose terms should we define or identify evil?

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                            #12.8 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 6:32 PM EDT
                            {"commentId":6567047,"authorDomain":"christopher-calbat"}
                            LOL, the mental image that gave me is hillarious! A solid column of rainbow shirts marching down the road with children running away screaming. Hehe...

                            That's funny...I didn't know catholic priests wore rainbow colored shirts...

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                            #12.9 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 12:40 AM EDT
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                            {"commentId":6561334,"authorDomain":"notsanta"}

                            The religious right picks and chooses which parts of the Bible they want to apply. And they choose based on which outsider group they would like to hate next. First, they emphasized slavery in the Bible when they wanted to hate black people. Now, they emphasize the parts condemning homosexuality so they can hate gay people.

                            They are completely and utterly disingenuous. They don't mean a word of it. They don't give a damn what the Bible says. They just want to use it as an instrument of hate.

                            The Bible says eating shellfish is an abomination. Yet there are no Red Lobster Amendments. The Bible says you shall not wear two different types of cloths at the same time. Yet there are no Propositions against cotton and wool combos.

                            The Bible says you should leave your family and join Jesus Christ. The religious right pretends that Jesus was about family values. He wanted you to abandon your family. Read the Bible.

                            The religious right pretends that the Bible says marriage is between one man and one woman. But that is a bald faced lie. Have any of these people ever read the Bible? The Bible is full of men taking on second wives, servants, prostitutes and concubines. And all the while, God heartily approves. How many wives did King David have? Eight? Twelve? Let alone his possibly gay lover, Jonathan.

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                            Reply#13 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 2:30 PM EDT
                            {"commentId":6561368,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                            MatBDeleted
                            {"commentId":6561517,"authorDomain":"jwbuchan"}
                            The religious right pretends that the Bible says marriage is between one man and one woman. But that is a bald faced lie. Have any of these people ever read the Bible? The Bible is full of men taking on second wives, servants, prostitutes and concubines. And all the while, God heartily approves. How many wives did King David have? Eight? Twelve? Let alone his possibly gay lover, Jonathan.

                            Yes, the bible has many stories about people who sinned. So what? That doesn't mean that the bible condones sin.

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                              #13.2 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 2:47 PM EDT
                              {"commentId":6561693,"authorDomain":"notsanta"}

                              Its how you interpret this bed time story.

                              These texts record the close relationship between the two. More than once or twice the text reports how Jonathan loves David as himself . This love, which David calls more wonderful than the love of women, is expressed also physically. When David takes his tender farewell of Jonathan - unlike the parting from his wife - the men kiss each other as they shed tears.

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                              #13.3 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 3:02 PM EDT
                              {"commentId":6561713,"authorDomain":"notsanta"}

                              But then again I am Buddhist, I do not believe in the jesus story or the bible.

                              So tell me anyone. Which religion is better? I say the oldest one is the best and should be followed by all.

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                              #13.4 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 3:04 PM EDT
                              {"commentId":6561777,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                              MatBDeleted
                              {"commentId":6561822,"authorDomain":"cleareyes"}

                              On that idea, Egyptian religions are much older than Buddhism.

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                              #13.6 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 3:13 PM EDT
                              {"commentId":6561873,"authorDomain":"keithDSM"}

                              NotSanta,

                              My opinion

                              One should not follow any religion. Religion is man-made. One should follow God.

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                              #13.7 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 3:17 PM EDT
                              {"commentId":6561875,"authorDomain":"SirThinkswaytoomuch"}
                              Oh, a Jesus never existed type. I know them. The slime that are against historical fact.

                              He existed, no doubt, but was he divine? Who knows? No one. Who can ever know? No one. So why worry about it?

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                              #13.8 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 3:17 PM EDT
                              {"commentId":6561919,"authorDomain":"jwbuchan"}
                              So why worry about it?

                              Fear. Uncertainty. Family and societal pressure. Yummy crackers.

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                              #13.9 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 3:22 PM EDT
                              {"commentId":6561963,"authorDomain":"christopher-calbat"}

                              MatB,


                              The slime that are against historical fact

                              You've seen Jesus' grave ? You've examined his DNA ? You can scientifically prove that he exists ?

                              The scientific community would be all ears if this were true. The fact is, religion is used to explain what science is yet unable to. A good example is lightning. We used to think it was god's punishment for transgressions, until we figured out it's actually caused by static electricity when the ground becomes charged with opposite energy from that in the clouds. The conductivity rises as the air becomes ionized oince the ionization overcomes the resistance, an electrical circuit is made.

                              Unless of course you think your car runs off of God's smiting heathens instead of a distributor and spark plugs which work in the same fashion .

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                              #13.10 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 3:25 PM EDT
                              {"commentId":6561982,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                              MatBDeleted
                              {"commentId":6561987,"authorDomain":"del-baby"}

                              I love Buddhists! Buddhists are and have been the nicest, most loving and balanced group of people I've EVER come across.... Hugs for you! Buddhist teaching forms a happy part of my philosophy, how I wish I could wave a magic wand and turn all the christians into Buddhists! Historically speaking, imagine if Christianity had simply dissolved as the minor cult it was and if Buddhism had spread - I'm getting all fuzzy and warm inside just thinking about it! No Crusades, no Inquisistion, no witch burnings, no Native American genocide.... and think how different today's world would be!

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                              #13.12 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 3:27 PM EDT
                              {"commentId":6562037,"authorDomain":"notsanta"}
                              Oh, a Jesus never existed type. I know them. The slime that are against historical fact.

                              Like the Jews, Atheist, Islam, Shinto, Taoism, Scientology, Hinduism.

                              Historical fact? Like how god lives on or near the planet kolob according to the latter days saints. So slime MatB Who is right.

                              BTW the oldest form of religion is Witch Craft. Heck that goes back to 70,000BCE.

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                              #13.13 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 3:31 PM EDT
                              {"commentId":6562046,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                              MatBDeleted
                              {"commentId":6562116,"authorDomain":"notsanta"}

                              Why do churchs have lightning rods on them? Why did the hitler youth pope ask people in Africa to stop practicing witch craft? And what does the pope know about condom use?

                              MatB What historians? Pat Robertson does not count. So they say he was real. Did he write anything down for historians to see? What does his signature look like? Was he left handed or right. Was he black, middle eastern or white? I heard he was a jew.

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                              #13.15 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 3:39 PM EDT
                              {"commentId":6562379,"authorDomain":"notsanta"}

                              Matthew
                              19:29 And every one that hath forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my name's sake, shall receive an hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life.

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                                #13.16 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 4:03 PM EDT
                                {"commentId":6562417,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                                MatBDeleted
                                {"commentId":6564225,"authorDomain":"lyamwhite"}

                                MatB: History is not science.

                                No. But it's subject to scientific findings, and verified through various sciences, including archaeology (by which we find cultural landmarks), anthropology (by which we examine ancient cultures), geology (by which we determine topographic history), and biology.

                                Historically we can, scientifically we can't, however, it's a matter of history.

                                History prior to modern record keeping involves a lot of guesswork, 'tis true. There's some controversy, historically speaking, as to whether the rabbi Yeshua was a real individual or a composite of several; clearly the stories aren't without foundation, but a Nazarene carpenter's son who expounded great truths is a more difficult target to triangulate than, say, Julius Caesar, a monarch and military leader who leaves a more material trail.

                                I'd probably accept for argument's sake that this man existed, and even that he said at least some of the things attributed to him; after all, many Sutras posit Christ as a bodhisattva, a notion which I, as a pantheist and a Nichiren Buddhist, find rather enticing. But that doesn't speak at all to the veracity of Biblical claims regarding the entirety of his purported philosophy, his miraculous acts, and, most importantly, his crucifixion and resurrection.

                                As a historical document, the Bible is no more verifiable than the Bhagavad Gita (or the broader work of Vedic scripture to which it belongs, the Mahabharata). Are you equally inclined to assure us all that Krishna actually preached the Hindu ethic directly to Arjuna on the battlefield?

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                                • 2 votes
                                #13.18 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 6:59 PM EDT
                                Reply
                                {"commentId":6561550,"authorDomain":"jibade7"}

                                I think a lot of the youth reject the hate and prejudices of their parents.

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                                Reply#14 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 2:50 PM EDT
                                {"commentId":6579163,"authorDomain":"ladyblue999"}

                                For that, many are grateful. The circle of intolerance has to stop somewhere.

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                                #14.1 - Mon Apr 20, 2009 1:53 AM EDT
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                                {"commentId":6561936,"authorDomain":"Rixar13"}

                                Hate seems to me a useful TOOL for conservatives and I don't believe they will give it up.

                                This facilitates my understanding that people who choose to hate in the name of "their" God are simply immersed in a human experience that is built on irrationality, fear, hatred and ego;

                                I choose to be what I am and believe in.

                                When we heal the hatred and anger that lies in our own hearts and come to stand steadfast in our loving we become a beacon of light for the youth of our world.
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                                Reply#15 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 3:23 PM EDT
                                {"commentId":6561992,"authorDomain":"christopher-calbat"}

                                I just find it interesting that the word they use to define it is 'homophobia.' which means 'fear of either humans (latin) or fear of the same 'greek' . Where there fear of homosexuals has nothing to do with either people, or the status quo. If anything they seek to maintain the status quo, and they're not afraid of people..rather afraid of themselves.

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                                Reply#16 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 3:28 PM EDT
                                {"commentId":6562444,"authorDomain":"asdwwww"}
                                Homophobia Is Killing Our Youth

                                No homophobia isn't killing our youth, lack of respect and responsibility is killing our youth. If parents would make their children responsible for thier actions and teach them about respect for themselves, their parents, their elders, and others homophobia wouldn't be an issue. Adults for that part lack respect and responsibility. That is whats wrong with our society, no one feels its their responsibility for anything, that its always not their fault something happened.

                                If a kid gets suspeneded at school the parents don't react that their child did something wrong, they get a lawyer and sue the school. Until people in take responsibility for their actions and show respect for others this society will continue to decline.

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                                  Reply#17 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 4:08 PM EDT
                                  {"commentId":6562471,"authorDomain":"asdwwww"}
                                  Hate seems to me a useful TOOL for conservatives and I don't believe they will give it up.

                                  Hate isn't limited to conservatives, liberals, democrats, republicans, conservatives, blacks, whites, hispanics... everyone uses hate as a tool to get what they want, it all boils down to a lack of respect for others, everyone is guilty.

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                                    Reply#18 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 4:10 PM EDT
                                    {"commentId":6562597,"authorDomain":"notsanta"}

                                    Hey in the last month there has been 60 people killed in shooting sprees. How many of those shooters were gay.

                                    The Virgina Tech Massacre, The Nursing Home Shooting Spree in North Carolina, The California father that killed his 3 children and then himself because his wife was leaving him for another guy? Were any of them gay?

                                    When was the last time you have heard of any gay person going on a shooting spree?

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                                    Reply#19 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 4:19 PM EDT
                                    {"commentId":6562658,"authorDomain":"mackerelmat"}
                                    MatBDeleted
                                    {"commentId":6562747,"authorDomain":"notsanta"}

                                    Why is that? Can't you just hold a bible up to them and tell?

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                                    #19.2 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 4:31 PM EDT
                                    {"commentId":6563468,"authorDomain":"christopher-calbat"}

                                    Funny Mat, in the 1970s the religious base actually declared it could scientifically not only prove who was gay , but it could correct them as well.

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                                    • 2 votes
                                    #19.3 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 5:39 PM EDT
                                    {"commentId":6563495,"authorDomain":"zomzom"}
                                    Why is that? Can't you just hold a bible up to them and tell?

                                    True. They light on fire. I've seen it.

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                                    • 3 votes
                                    #19.4 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 5:41 PM EDT
                                    {"commentId":6563515,"authorDomain":"blueboy"}
                                    True. They light on fire. I've seen it.

                                    Oh, good times.

                                    *wipes tear away*

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                                    #19.5 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 5:43 PM EDT
                                    {"commentId":6563547,"authorDomain":"notsanta"}

                                    Oh, good times.

                                    *wipes tear away*

                                    Care to elaborate?

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                                    #19.6 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 5:46 PM EDT
                                    {"commentId":6563585,"authorDomain":"zomzom"}
                                    Funny Mat, in the 1970s the religious base actually declared it could scientifically not only prove who was gay , but it could correct them as well.

                                    Pat Robertson can leg-press two thousand pounds. So anything is possible.

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                                    • 2 votes
                                    #19.7 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 5:52 PM EDT
                                    {"commentId":6563866,"authorDomain":"blueboy"}
                                    Care to elaborate?

                                    I just cry when I laugh hard.

                                    Feels good man.

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                                    #19.8 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 6:20 PM EDT
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                                    {"commentId":6563015,"authorDomain":"scoot1965"}
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                                    {"commentId":6563450,"authorDomain":"notsanta"}

                                    Well seeing how some of the last generation acts, no wonder.

                                    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HW5cyyTGk8Q

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                                      Reply#21 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 5:38 PM EDT
                                      {"commentId":6564595,"authorDomain":"darreth"}

                                      The one seen with these idiots doing their little chants... watch the faces of some of these guys... "(Hate it when you can't speak for all the CHAW'n TABBACCCA IN YER MOUTH!!!!" The thing that makes me really sad for these people is they don't seem to realize how STUPID they really look!!!

                                      Anybody ever seen Porky's II??? The BEST scene is the one where they turn the lights on in the gymnasium and are surrounded by the ENTIRE seminole tribe!!!!! *OOPS*

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                                      #21.1 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 7:41 PM EDT
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                                      {"commentId":6565083,"authorDomain":"garymoo"}

                                      Many gay friends of mine have been significantly impacted in a negative sense by the views of those around them. I think it'll be less of an issue in the future, but its a shame that so many people and dogmatic and mean spirited.

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                                      Reply#22 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 8:37 PM EDT
                                      {"commentId":6565693,"authorDomain":"eriqalan"}

                                      What I didn't see addressed above is the passive killing of children / teenagers by the hate itself. The Suicide rate among teenagers who believe they might be gay is 6 times the national average; they commit suicide because certain people in their lives convince them they are "bad", "wrong", etc. so it isn't just the psychos who kill people (e.g. Matthew Shepard) because they are gay; all of the haters, the vitriolic, the smug self-righteous Anti-Christ Christians who claim that there is something immoral about homosexuality are killing teens.

                                      As far as something being in the Bible:

                                      There CAN NOT be anything in the Bible that says anything about homosexuality because - the idea that there was such a thing as homosexuality did not exist - and there was no word for something that does not exist.

                                      What the Bible does talk about is a ritual in another religion in which the priest ritually rapes another man in a woman's bedchambers. When, long after the people and the societies who wrote the Bibloe were long dust; the Bible was translated for King James, they altered the meanings of the words to fit the prejudices of the monks doing the translation - rather than the original meaning

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                                      Reply#23 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 9:54 PM EDT
                                      {"commentId":6566196,"authorDomain":"GedK"}

                                      Most people are more reasonable than portrayed. Few don't know that cruelty to anyone (gay or straight) is wrong. Gays should be allowed to live their life freely. But, it is outrageous to claim that everyone who isn't on the side of gay marriage is cruel, crazy, homophobic, etc. I have never taken a position against Gay marriage. I wish it would be legalized so that the issue will go away. But, too much is made of this issue. The nation and world has much larger issues than Gay marriage.

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                                      Reply#24 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 10:59 PM EDT
                                      {"commentId":6566231,"authorDomain":"blueboy"}

                                      So we should get over this speed bump, not drag it out. Blame the people that are denying the rights of Homosexuals.

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                                      #24.1 - Sat Apr 18, 2009 11:04 PM EDT
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                                      {"commentId":6567435,"authorDomain":"jason-abdon"}

                                      Religion is a disease rooted in superstition and ignorance. It is an insult to rational and logical minds. It is an affront to intelligence and it should be deprogrammed from the afflicted mentality that presents itself. It matters not if it is Islam, Christian , or whatever. Treatment should continue until rationality is established.

                                      http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=3369102968312745410

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                                      Reply#25 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 1:40 AM EDT
                                      {"commentId":6567683,"authorDomain":"nobama12"}
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                                      {"commentId":6569372,"authorDomain":"SirThinkswaytoomuch"}

                                      nobama, we have a Code Of Honor around here for a reason. I suggest you review it at length.

                                      Above all else, respect others. Address issues and arguments and refrain from making personal attacks. If you see something disrespectful or inappropriate, report it - rather than further inflaming the situation. More +

                                      1. Adding a personal attack to an otherwise valuable comment or article serves only to render that contribution invalid in its entirety. Such content is subject to moderation.
                                      2. Harassment and/or intimidation of others on Newsvine will not be tolerated, and patterns of such behavior may result in account cancelation.

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                                      #25.2 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 10:11 AM EDT
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                                      {"commentId":6567526,"authorDomain":"nobama12"}
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                                      All fags should be put on death row! 30 years ago accepting the fag lifestyle was unheard of. What's next for the screwed up liberals out there...acceptance for pedophiles? I can hear their slogan now....child molesters are people too, they just like their sexual partners younger and should be entitled to the same rights as everybody else. This country is going to hell with these nutjob liberals

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                                      Reply#26 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 2:00 AM EDT
                                      {"commentId":6567685,"authorDomain":"darreth"}

                                      To Nobama: RE #26: RIGHT... but it's a good thing that when all the social deviants are gone we'll have tolerant people like you left to tell us what is right!!! I don't know about the rest of the posters here but my IQ just dropped 10 points by reading the STUPIDITY of the last post!!!! JERK!!!

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                                      #26.1 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 2:40 AM EDT
                                      {"commentId":6567698,"authorDomain":"christopher-calbat"}

                                      I just read your post and realized that what you said has sparked both a conundrum in my mind as well as an aching need for resolution of said conundrum.

                                      The conundrum is "Why is nobama12 not on my ignore list?"

                                      Hmmm...funny, the conundrum has just found it's resolution...oh well. All's well that ends well.

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                                      #26.2 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 2:43 AM EDT
                                      {"commentId":6569382,"authorDomain":"SirThinkswaytoomuch"}

                                      This can't be a serious post. If it is, I suggest you find some sort of mental help. Obviously you have some sort of unresolved issues.

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                                        #26.3 - Sun Apr 19, 2009 10:12 AM EDT
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                                        {"commentId":6593044,"authorDomain":"tyler"}

                                        nobama12 suspended for a week for violating #1 and #5 of the Code of Honor. Get right - stop with the slurs and personal attacks. Or leave.

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                                        Reply#27 - Mon Apr 20, 2009 5:37 PM EDT
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